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Well I am new to this site and not really sure how it works but I am sure I will figure it out soon.

This is the beginning of whats going to be a long, very dramatic, stressful and draining battle but I have been given no other choice. After 9 years I have finally had eNough. I am in a horrible abusive relationship that is just getting worse and is now effecting my son. I cannot continue to allow my child to live like this so I am doing what I need to do to get him into a healthy environment where he can just be a kid and not worry about things that he shouldnt even know about. I have no money or family to help me get away from this situation (which is also why I have stayed for so long) but I am hoping that this site will guide me to available resources or options that I may have and do not know about. Maybe someone that has gone through a similar situation is able to give me some insight and or hope that I made the right decision and that things will get better. 

I need help. I recently found my wife of 16 years has been in a relationship with an old friend from high school. I tried to work it out with her but she wont stop communicationg with him. I cant continue torturing myself with this situation. I make decent money but have alot of bills. I have 4 children and dont really know what im going to do. I have to pay for the divorce and pay for an apartment now. I am curently stuck living in the same house as her because I cant afford either of the two. I have a 401K that I have to slpit with her. She will be able to use that money once the divorce has been finalized. I can not touch it due to my companies policy. There is a small portion I can withdrawl but its not enough to pay for divorce let alone moving into apartment. I need at least $5000 to take care of everything. I have extensive knowledge of aircraft electrical systems. Radios and Navigation equipment that could be put put to use as repayment